There is one key factor that can either damage your relationships or deepen them. That factor is your attitude. If you’re hoping to grow and maintain positive relationships in your life, read on. Below you will find a 20 step attitude adjustment guaranteed to help you do just that.
Stop holding grudges. – Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
Stop complaining. – Instead, use your time and energy to do something about it.
Stop meaning what you don’t say. – People can’t read minds. Communicate regularly and effectively.
Stop making it all about you. – The world revolves around the sun, not you. Take a moment to acknowledge this truth on a regular basis.
Stop lying. – In the long-run the truth always reveals itself. Either you own up to your actions or your actions will ultimately own you.
Stop blaming. – Blaming others accomplishes nothing. Either you own your problems, or they will own you. Your choice. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give-up your power over that part of your life, and you annoy everyone around you in the process.
Stop doubting. – If you think that you can’t achieve something, I have some news for you, you’re probably right. But don’t let your self-doubt interfere with other people’s dreams. Remember, the one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it. (Read Unstoppable.)
Stop interrupting. – Correcting someone when they’re blatantly wrong is one thing, but always interjecting your opinions out of turn gets old fast.
Stop being selfish. – You get what you put into a relationship. Nothing less, nothing more.
Stop judging. – Everyone is fighting their own unique war. You have no clue what they are going through, just like they have no clue what you’re going through.
Stop gossiping. – Gossiping about others is a lose/lose situation. It hurts them, and then it hurts your reputation.
Stop making promises you can’t keep. – Don’t over-promise. Over-deliver on everything you do.
Stop being defensive. – Just because someone sees something differently than you doesn’t mean either one of you is wrong. Keep an open mind. Open minds discover great things.
Stop comparing people to others. – No two people are alike. Everyone has their own strengths. We are only competing against our own selves.
Stop expecting people to be perfect. – ‘Perfect’ is the enemy of ‘good.’ And genuine ‘goodness’ is hard to find in this world. Don’t overlook it.
Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – It’s impossible. But making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
Stop screwing people over just because you can get away with it. – Just because you can get away with something doesn’t mean you should do it. Think bigger. Do what you know in your heart is right. (Read Life’s Greatest Lessons.)
Stop making mountains out of molehills. – People make mistakes. Crap happens. There’s no reason to stress out yourself and everyone around you because of it. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
Stop being dramatic. – Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your own.
Stop giving out advice, and just listen. – Less advice is often the best advice. People don’t need lots of advice, they need a listening ear and some positive reinforcement. What they want to know is already somewhere inside of them. They just need time to think, be and breathe, and continue to explore the undirected journeys that will eventually help them find their direction.
Skang ni feymes pasal Nora Elena kan? RAta-rata blog pon ade je ckp pasal NE ni, kat twitter, fb..lagi2 nk dkat maghrib tu....
Status msti sume...Jatuh hati la kat Seth....Suweet nyee...xkurang jugak, angan2 nk ade laki mcm Seth tu la..hahaiii~ biase la..bab2 suweet ni mmg la ley buat hati cairr~
tapi kan..Mr Green Apple saye pon suweet jugak tau.. Mase d awal2 perkenalan kami kan, dia ade bg saye satu craft tali2 ni. handmade craft dari student..yg biasa buat kalau nk dedicate kat org, anta roses ke, lebih kurang cmtuh la..tp yg ni handmade craft. So, d sebabkan dia mnat mnde tu, tp xdek sape nk d dedicate. Die dedicate kat dri sndri. (alololo..cian kan)...then, die berazam akan bg kat seseorang yg special bg dia..and now. that thing kat saye! n mase die kuar kan mende tu, da comot2 n tersimpul2 tali die. n he tried his best to fix it and give it to me dgn penuh perasaan n cerita yg die mmg beli ntok someone special...hehe. i found thats so sweet! hehe.
For me pon, xperlu bunga 100 kuntum untuk jadi suweet. just be natural. If it true from your heart...definitely will touch your couple's heart. Just what i thought all this while. Different people might have different perception. But for me, he's sweet enough in his own way. :) Thanks dear!
A million thanks ! I know it's late! but..never late than never rite? but u know what..i hate that phrase actually. hoho. Late is never can be better! Okeh. merepek! (I think, i have influenced by him - which refer to My Mr-Manis-Hati. cause he really likes to merepek and suke off tajuk! :P)
Ok. Main topic is....A million thanks for the present!
For the sweet roses!
For the perfume too! Mcm bermimpi2 bile pkai! haha - over sgt!
By the way..truly..thanks for the love. And for being here. Close in my heart! :) That's the most precious gift syg! Ni sampingan2 je. But that does not mean...ta paya hadiah pon tape.. hahaha...apekah? ai pon pening dah ape ai ckp nie..
"Us" also quite...i dunnoe how to describe. Much of his activity i know by reading his blog. Maybe not much time to tell me directly what he's doing. Where he's going. Well, that's the result if you stay apart. and both do not have time. Precisely, do not find a time to just sit together and sharing what we are done day by day. Is that necessary? Well, i still believe. he not just doing that purposely. It just, time constraint.
Well, enough said. Need to watch my fav tv show~ Bored routine. Daily. Got to go. Bye!
Cemburu?? Tahukah anda-kalian-pakcik2-adik2-kakak2...ape itu maksud cemburu? adekah ianya sejenis kuih? atau beskut yg sedap dan boleh d mkn? ouh..sdap nye famous amous! (teringat2 beskut sedap d Alamanda itu.....) --> out of topic sudah~
Mungkin boleh mencuba naseb mintak kat makcik depan simpang tuh, "makcikk...nk kueh cemburu 2 hengget!"...kalau x kene backhand ngn makcik tu, mmg kire dah bertuah sgt la tuh. Haha.
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" VIVAnews - Rasa cemburu bisa dikatakan sebuah emosi negatif yang timbul karena rasa tidak percaya pada pasangan. Ketidakpercayaan tersebut membuat rasa tidak aman pada diri, lalu muncul rasa cemburu. Terkadang saat cemburu Anda bisa mengendalikannya, tapi kadangkala tidak. " hasil pencarian google.
Selalu Encik-Manis-Hati saya message bila saya start cemburu " Awak ni cemburu buta la, macam perempuan!" Cess..dia ingat dia bercinta sama laki-laki kah selama ini? =.="
By the way, ramai atau banyak pendapat, mengatakan yang cemburu ni berkait rapat dengan wanita. Bile sebut cemburu je, the first place. Mesti refer to perempuan. Kan? kan? Ish2. Xadil2. Ini adelah tidak adil! Sebenar nya, pada pendapatan saya, cemburu ni lebih kepada emosi. Which is refer pada phrase atas tu. Emosi negatif. Dan perempuan pulak..ad masa2 nya..emosi dia mmg susah nk d kawal. Bukan xmo kawal. atau sengaja tak nak kawal. Tapi mmg tiba2 die xboleh d kawal. Jadi ketika, dan masa ini...awas! benda kecik je, boleh jadik besar --> boleh d referkan sbagai cemburu buta.
Tapi, tak d nafikan, yang golongan lelaki pon, ramai je yang cemburu. Cume kadang2 ego mereka ni lebih sikit. Xsebut la sebagai cemburu. D tambah lagi, lelaki nie, takde la masa2 bila hormon die unbalance mcm kaum hawa nie. So, they should be able to manage well la berbanding kita. And d sebabkan itu juga la, in the first place why lelaki mempunyai kuasa talak-cerai. Ada logik nya d situ. So, byg kan kalau perempuan pon ada kuasa yang sama. I guess...tiap kali "bulan mengambang" bercerai berai jadik nye. Emosi kurang stabil la katakan...haha. Ok, imaginasi melampau pulak. (Bile xpuas hati je, cerai! uish. Gile scary!)
Well, kire nye, sbenarnya..motif utama d sni, tak boleh la nk ckp total relationship perempuan dan cemburu adalah berkadar langsung 100% ! If seseorang tu cemburu, mungkin itu adelah personaliti dia yg mmg kuat cemburu. So, ckp secara personally la, not by his/her gender! Sebab sume org pon akan ada perasaan cemburu. Thats normal la! Cume, ade kategori die la. Cemburu buta, cemburu berasas.
Contoh kalau, Si dia nk keluar dengan kawan2 pon nk jeles. Masalah la pulak kan...Tapi, kalau sampai Si Dia keluar berdua ngn perempuan/lelaki lain. Lepas tu, mmg penah ade feeling2 ke, And kite plak boleh biase n slumber je..pon masalah jugak kann? haha. So, lite2 je. Well, give some space to your partner. They need to have their own life jugak isn't it?
Biasa nya cemburu ni d kaitkan dengan perasaan insecure and mistrust. So, the best way is, Trust your partner, make a good communication. And the most and crucial part is...be honest! Well. That's the best policy in life also. Be honest! You won't lose anything right? Kejujuran tu penting. No matter what it takes. Be honest. Insha-Allah...selamat dunia akhirat. :)
Kurangpasti jika Encik Manis-Hati saya sudah makan tengahari atau belum.
Lewat ini, beliau amat sibuk sekali. Banyak sungguh tugasan beliau yang mahu diselesaikan.
Ok, penatla cakap formal.. =.=" --> xdek sape suruh pon kann..hehe
My dear busy sgt lately, tidur xckup, rehat x ckup, mkn pon xckup kot? kasih sayang ckup x kamu? ekeke.
Terima kasih syg. Untuk handband or what ever that is supposed-to-be-called. Thehe..Ianya nmpk comel. Terime kaseh awak..even awak g trip ke Melaka ntok lwatan. Sempat lagi beli kan souvenir ntok saya. Baek la awak nie. Saya da adpt mcm2 nie dari awak, segan plak. Saya nk beli barang kat awak ni, xbeli2. Sbb nk bawak awak skali... --> xtaw exact saiz kaki, xtaw exact saiz badan...
Nevermind then, we still have time kan? Later we go out together, beli your thingy k my dear. :) Rindu awak banyak2. Awak rindu saya x?
ok, this post not related to our relationship pon. But, it just something that i would like to share.
At my office, we have different support group that support different company from different country but sit in the same office. Do you get me?
Haha. ok. we have different group here. Like my group is supporting Global, but for Chevron account, and the group that sit beside ours is group that support Japanense Company which-i-never know. Half of them were originate from Japan. One of the guys that sit at the left in front of me. I never know his name, he's from Japan. But i think he's quite cool. ( dgn stail ala2 rambut x sikat pon boleh nmpk comel and cool kan?) well, like org slalu ckp, kalau dah hensem and lawa, pakai ap2 pon, tetap comel dan menawan. hehe. BTw, this person nie, even comel and attract me..(hehe, sori yayang) he have one bad habit which is - dunnoe-where-is-toilet. Haha. i called that way as he always brush his teeth at pantry! is that make sense? =.=" It happen once i went to pantry for my lunch, then, he come in at pantry and went to sink and start brushing his teeth. There are around 3-4 people currently there that having their lunch there. Whoaahh~ bad a bad habit i think. but, might be in Japan it's ok. I don't know. up until now, he still brushing his teeth there! =.="
The conclusion is, muke chantek ke, hemcem ke...kalau perangai xbaek. Tak boleh jugak kan? hee..perangai saye baek ke? huu...tapi yg saya tau, sayang saya nie baek org nye. Walau pun dia sedikit nakal. hehe. Sayang awak!
it been a while since we update the blog. Both of us start busy i guess....but, i believe when he read this post, he will claim --> "eleh, ayg x bz pon sbnr nye " hahha..well..Expected that! ahaha. N the trust is, he's the one that real bz, but indeed still have time for day trip (ouh..am i jelousy? naa....)
okies, just short update before going back home --> damn tired today! system down for the past 2 days ~ thats the main reason why we got a lot of work today! phew~ exhausted!
Ok, back to main topic, --> when we are apart..mmg apart pon..since sorg kat KL, and sorg kat Penang..but the "apart that i'm talking about is...apart and lost connection~ hehe..
it remind me for few past trip that i joined while i'm still student...i love to joined outdoor activities, like hiking, canoeing --> well, that need me to be out of place for couple of days. And out of place --> refer to the place that are unreacheable via phone/internet...and normally or might be we name it accidentally whenever i went for my trip...my dear Mr-Manis-Hati akan fall sick. He will demam la, x sihat la..x selera makan la... Sgt kan? Hehe...
So, i wonder as i need to go for my businness trip about 2 month to India at the end of this month. **Worry for him as he will sit for his Final exam ever! Last semester for him. So, must be very crucial.So, please take care ok. And Ganbatte!
Janji dengan saye yang awak akan jadi budak kuat ok? :)
Saat post ini d tapi pasti encik buah-hati-pengarang jantung saya pasti sedang lena d ulit mimpi. :)
Untuk belakangan ini, beliau teramat sangat busy! hehe. banyak keje2 yg beliau perlu siapkan, almaklumlah..pelajar tahun akhir..PELAJAR?? ehh...saya pulak sedang berkerja? jangan terkejut, kami sebaya cuma beliau mngambil kursus empat tahun.
Mengimbau kembali saat-saat perkenalan..beliau agak pemalu juga orang nya. Hehe. Mungkin sedikit sombong. Sombong mungkin bukan ayat yang sesuai..mungkin kurang ramah dengan orang masih belum d kenali. Tapi, bila dah mula kenal, banyak je mulut nya..ada je benda yang nak d luah kan. Lihat saja post2 beliau dalam blog nie. ^_^
Beliau adalah..seorang yang complicated tapi simple. Kontra tak statement nie? Haha. Saya pon rasa mcm tuh, tapi beliau mmg begitu. Macam mana ya...bila memikirkan sesuatu, beliau akan berfikir dari segenap sudut. Terperinci jugak org nye dia nie. Boleh categorize dlm golongan yang cerewet jugak, tp dia simple sbnr nya kalau tahu ap yang dia nak, apa kesukaan dia, dan how's he handle something. Itu lah sayang saya. :)
*bisik2** - tapi kan dia nie kan, cepat stress kalau kerje yang dia buat xjalan2. haha. and kadang2, bila stress sbb keje dia bnyakkkkk and deadline sume dekat2, salah kite sikit je, dia akan marah kat kita, caya x? tapi kalau kite majuk, die pujuk la balik. hehe. sayang awak!
walau dia nie mcm mane pon, kite tetap sayang dia. sayang dia sorg je, die cepat stress ke, die komplikasi ke..eh, pelik je bunyik dia..complicated kot, dia cerewet ke.. dia tetap PRINCE di hati saya. :)
Hi!
It been a while since my last post. It just encik tersebut je yg post dgn sgt gigih! setiap hari and sometimes, couple of post in one day! Congrats! Sgt rajin ye awak! Sampai account pon kne org laen pggkan. huhu.
Well, as what my dear said on his couple of post me and my frens went to SACC Mall for pameran pengantin. Such a good experience, and by the way, you can save a lot! if you are willing to answer question on the stage. A simple question ok! and you can get like a sponsor for your wedding dress which cost RM2000. Sound tempting right? My goodness~ syg, can we that event when we are about to get married nnt? pleaseee....
After about 5 hours there..i found my baju for majlis nikah nnt! haha. i'm not sure what you guys would think. but for me, i think that baju sgt cantik. Might be simple dress. Eh, ckp mcm nk nikah dah! haha. No la..i just berangan2 jeh.
Here is the baju...luckily i bring along my Mr.Nikon with me.
I like yg kebaya labuh kaler putih tuh. Sweet sgt kan?? I know it like..sgt simple kan. but then, dlm bnyk2 baju kat situ, baju tu jugak yg menambat hati. Close up sket...ngee..
Cantik kan? @_@ ~~~ Mahu yang ini...
Okies, Encik Epal kite akan stop posting kejap. Die kne denda! hehe.
I'm not such a good writer as Mr down there. See how many post that he been created. Not like me, i was like staring in front of my laptop and thinking of what i'm gonna type......blank..still blank..
The title that came across my mind were...kenapa lelaki pemalu?...cantik itu penting? ...tp, sume hanya tajuk. No elaboration. Dush!
Like what he said on previous post..Lelaki sukar nk luah kan perasaan. Tp, kenapa ya? Ego? Tapi kadang2 perempuan pon same je..So, kalau nk ckp yg malu nk luah kan perasaan, do not said based on their sex, just said that people itself kan? Ade je perempuan yg mmg malu nk luah kan perasaan, and end up tgk org yg dia admire bersama ngn org lain. Redha jelah, xde jodoh kot. hoho. Macam saye? haha. Well, if i'm said that i yg ngurat my dear org gelak x? haha. I ngurat yu ke dear? hehe. No comment!
About Cantik tu penting? Cantik dari segi mana? Entahlah, pemahaman saya dari dulu sampai kini, Cantik = kurus. Sebab bile kurus boleh bergaya, boleh pakai baju cantik2. Sume org suke.. Kolot gile kan pemikiran. Ortodoks gile. Tapi, saya d besarkan dgn suasana yg kalau anda gempal atau berisi, anda adalah d cop buruk! Oh my~~ Nightmare sgt tau! Bile da buruk --> pakai ape pon msti buruk --> jadi malas nk beli pakaian --> malas nk shopping --> pakai je ap yg ade --> penampilan x menarik --> lagi la bertambah buruk. Mungkin pemikiran mcm nie yg mnyebabkan saya jadi seorang yg tidak berapa gila shopping. Dan kalau nk shopping pon, malu kot, biar g sorg2 je. Takut nant bile cube2, eh x muat la...sedih kan? Perihal lelaki yg suka perempuan cantik..tak d nafikan, sume lelaki, jangan bias la..sume orang suke kan kecantikan. Jadi mcm mane dgn org2 yg mcm saya nie? Hmm..kene pegi London Weight Management nie! Ahaha. gile terpengaruh ngn cerita Pesona kat tv ptg semalam! Mengisahkan pasangan suami isteri yg si isteri nye mngalami masalah berat badan..then, si isteri ni pon da start susah hati...then, hubby die plak start bising2 kate baju mcm sarung nangka... @_@ ....aiyakkk! Then, wife dia start pra-sangka yg hubby dia ad prempuan laen plak...at last, g dpt kan rawatan kat LWM tuh. n hasil nye...taraaaaaaaaaaaa!!! Badan tampil langsing dan menawan! then, die tampilkan hubby dia..n hubby die siap bg bunga n kata syg wife die lebih...hoho. obvious sgt kot ckp cmtuh...syg sbb cantik ke? ouh. tak mo la cmtuh....so..dear. I kene pegi LWM ke supaya u syg lebih? ahahahaha
Ok! da mereng sikit. Sbb baru balik keje. Xtido lagi. Pape pon, time kasih awak.Sudi terima kite yg x berapa nk menawan ni. Kne la keje keras sikit, kumpul duet awak manyak2, pastu anta kite g sane ekh? :p ahahaha.
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